Happy Thanksgiving

Things have been pretty busy over the last few days. We just got back from Missouri where we got to visit my family and spent a few days and Thanksgiving with Tovah's family. Her dad was super generous and hooked us both up with plane tickets! He's a very nice guy and it was great getting to know their family.

Wedding Location Ideas

We're flying out at 4:00-am to go to Missouri to visit family over Thanks Giving so I'm going to keep this one short.

From the Anti-Bride Wedding Planner

"Want to keep it intimate without offending anyone? Choose a destination spot - only those favorite pals and family will probably make the trip."

"Check out the chambers of commerce, city halls, and visitors bureaus for space ideas. Other alternative spaces to check out include officer's clubs, local orchards or wineries, union or VFW halls, off-season ski resorts, amusement parks, movie studio lots, school and university grounds, or even historic boats.

Classic Jewelers - Free Engagement Sessions!

Hey everybody, be sure to swing by Classic Jewelers and check out their new location. They're still in the Columbia Mall, but now located in the central square. Scott is running a big sale to make room for new inventory, so now would be a good time to shop for a ring for holiday engagements or gifts. Also, remember we're offering Free Engagement Sessions to anyone who makes a purchase valued at $995 or more from them. If you're looking for Wedding Bands or Engagement Rings, this is the perfect compliment to you're special day. Visit Classic Jewelers for details.

Where to Spend Your Money

From the Anti-Bride Wedding Planner

Photographer
Rely on recommendations from friends, relatives, and pros you know. View their portfolios online, and hire the photographer with the best one.

Wedding Consultant
For large weddings, a good one can be a godsend. As your girl Friday, she will be able to take on the lino's share of the wedding stress. (Note: Weddings are her industry; expect industry discounts.)

Cake
Unless you or your best friend is a pastry chef, don't attempt to make your own wedding cake to cut costs.

Food Quality
Good food can mean the difference between and unforgettable evening and grumpy guests. Too often, caterers underestimate portions. Choose chicken over prime rib, but never skimp on the quality (or quantity) of your ingredients.

Booze
The approach is pizzazz without a huge bar bill, but running out of liquor is a no-no. Good beer, good wine, and a snappy cocktail are all you need. Negotiate case discounts with a vineyard, shop at a reginal discount shop (such as Trader Joe's), or check out the wine picks of Target's new sommelier.

Labor
Experienced people will keep your guests happy. Make sure they're pros.

Where to Save Your Money

From the Anti-Bride Wedding Planner

Invitations
Order online because cost savings are significant. Look for complete packages-from invitations to a wedding Web site.

Calligrapher
Hire art students from a local college to address invitations and announcements. They need the money; you need the quality for less.

Flowers
Buy in-season flowers and only what you need. Allocate the bulk of the arrangements to the reception where guests spend the most time. If you plan far enough in advance, you can even harvest your own flowers.

Meal Choices
Choosing dishes like chicken, beef, salmon, and shrimp, and steering clear of pricier items like filet mignon, can save you a lot. Meals for a daytime wedding also cost considerably less than those for an evening one.

Dress
Beautiful alternatives are available in local boutiques or your favorite department store's eveningwear section. Some Web sites, like Indiebride.com, sponsor a dress swap.

Accessories
Vintage accessories can be funked up if you know the gal in the bead shop. Donna Davis of Forbeadin' takes apart Grandma's classics and adds glamour with semiprecious stones. She also makes tiaras that convert into necklaces after the event.

Next Week - Where to Spend