Where to Spend Your Money

From the Anti-Bride Wedding Planner

Photographer
Rely on recommendations from friends, relatives, and pros you know. View their portfolios online, and hire the photographer with the best one.

Wedding Consultant
For large weddings, a good one can be a godsend. As your girl Friday, she will be able to take on the lino's share of the wedding stress. (Note: Weddings are her industry; expect industry discounts.)

Cake
Unless you or your best friend is a pastry chef, don't attempt to make your own wedding cake to cut costs.

Food Quality
Good food can mean the difference between and unforgettable evening and grumpy guests. Too often, caterers underestimate portions. Choose chicken over prime rib, but never skimp on the quality (or quantity) of your ingredients.

Booze
The approach is pizzazz without a huge bar bill, but running out of liquor is a no-no. Good beer, good wine, and a snappy cocktail are all you need. Negotiate case discounts with a vineyard, shop at a reginal discount shop (such as Trader Joe's), or check out the wine picks of Target's new sommelier.

Labor
Experienced people will keep your guests happy. Make sure they're pros.